Face Painting

Androgynous a mixture of masculine and feminine traits. I believe that face paintings is an fun and androgynous activity. Until, a boy gets a face painting thats generally associated with a girl. Maybe theres a rea give-and-take for it like an sometime(a) sibling of the opposite sex had one or hes forever fascinated with the subject and thats his way of expressing it. On the other hand, it is alright for a little girl to have a masculine face painting in society is understanding of that. I am understanding and wise(p) f what negative things this portrays for young boys, but face paintings are just that, face paintings. One Friday evening, I took my daughter whose(5) and son (3) years old to her direct carnival. The second activity they wanted to go to was face painting. My daughter chose a purple butterfly to be painted on her face and my son copied her. I permitted this, with androgyny. I figured his only copying his sister you thats all. Well, when we walked to the another act ivity I noticed people (especially of my culture) looking at my son and hence me.As I was standing in the line I started thinking about what my sons dad would do. I could hear him saying, You need to submit them to take that off , I dont know why you let them put it on him. Hes not a girl. Because he is the most important peer in my kids life other than me. I decided to do just that. Peer a person who influences us by providing us with feedback, whether its positive or negative. Modeling demonstrating or showing your same sex the behaviors that you want them to adopt. I never thought of my husband teaching our son to imitate his very own ways as odeling. Because I didnt know the correct term for it. I knew what he was doing, duh. Any how, he would edge how to go potty with our son, when I went to the store he would keep my son at home with him, and he also encourages him to come outside with him while hes fixing on our cars or other things in the house. Back in the line for a face painting re-do. I channeled my son thoughts with the linguistic communication of my husband. By letting him know that boys should get a spider man face painting instead of a butterfly.Channeling directing your kids attention to what you think is fascinate for their sex. I realized more than ever before that my husband are using manipulative methods to raise our children. I am not upset with this at all because I understand his reasoning behind it all in that he has nothing but good intentions for them. My husband also allows my son to shilling his head and fold his arms across his chest while my little girls tries to twist her hips when walking he tells her to stop And says you dont do that. manipulative having a different set of rules for boys verses girls.